This seems to be a topic that is highly debated and I'm the right one to debate it with...
I have came across several discussions about females paying for the first date and it seems 8 out of 10 females refuse to pay, will not think about or consider paying and will diss a man because of it. But what I really want to know is - what is wrong with paying for the first date?
Ladies you have to understand that just because you pay for the first date - it does NOT mean you are thirsty. (Matter of fact - someone give me the dayum definition of thirsty cause I'm sick of seeing that word when the ones that use it the most are the actual ones that are 'thirsty') LOL
How can you call someone thirsty because they are doing what you won't do?
How can you call someone thirsty because they are being a 'grown' woman?
How can you call someone thirsty because she ain't out here trying to have a man pay for everything under the sun and constantly talking about they need a man to take care of them?
Newsflash sweetie - you are now the new definition of thirsty right along with ignorant.
I'm jus sayin... I'm sure someone is going to get mad but ask me if I care!?!?!
Like I was saying ... YOU ARE NOT THIRSTY - YOU ARE NOT A TRIX - YOU ARE NOT A CHILD - YOU ARE A GROWN WOMAN!
You are honestly letting him know that you can also handle your business with no questions being asked.
When you and a man have a common interest and y'all are feeling eachother - why are you waiting on him to make the 1st move? Why can't you? What is wrong with hitting him up and seeing if he would like to step out with you? What's wrong with saying -my treat?
I'm not saying all fellaz will let this ride because then again a man can sit back and see how far you are actually willing to go before he stops you and tells you that he got it. Show them that you got their back and trust and believe he will have your back.
All I'm saying is some people need to wake up ... In order to make things happen, you need to take that step. If I'm digging you - I have no problem taking you out and paying for it, I have no problem stepping out with you and paying for it as well - bottom line - I have no problem with it. If you are in the position to do it - then do it. Why concern yourself about what someone else is going to think of you because you paid for the first date? PHUCK DAT PERSON!!!! It is your life - not theirs. You can pass up a good thing just because you are stuck in 18th century.
Let me how you feel though? Do you feel it is alright for a female to pay for the first date?
Let's Talk....
